Warning ***Adult Content***, stop reading if you are a prude.
For many people, ‘three is a crowd’ when it comes to intimacy, but as social norms, dating habits and relationships change, so does what we want. Most guys fantasize about being with two women at the same time and this is said to be every man’s dream, and it is often thought of as the Holy Grail that every man should strive to conquer. Some men feel that the only thing that is more exciting than an incredibly horny woman would be having two of them in bed at the same time. For men it all boils down to the added stimuli that two mouths and four hands along with some other extra available open orifices and goodies, or twice the number of body parts to enjoy sexually, will bring more excitement and spice up their sex life.
Although most men have fantasized about it, it seems that many women admit to having been propositioned for a threesome or a ménage à trois. Engaging in sex with more than one partner appeals to women for several reasons, as they actually fantasize about sex as much as men do, which includes the allure of being the center of sexual pleasure, and being able to please others at the same time, or being one of two people concentrating on a third. Recently women have fond it more acceptable for them to admit that they would like to be with two hot men at once, or perhaps a man and another woman. They often feel that this forbidden or taboo scene might turn into a night of double the pleasure, double the fun for them. Some women secretly desire group sex and according to a survey by sex toy company, up to one-third of women fantasize about having sex with a group of men. According to Pornhub the threesome category is 75 percent more likely to be searched by a woman than by a man. When it comes to orgasms, men are usually one and done, but women can have multiple orgasms, so they are able to satisfy more partners.
The idea of being simultaneously loved and adored by two males, two females, or a male and a female grouping may be exciting for some. Threesomes present a way for women and men to be wanted by more than one person, and be at ‘center stage’. Psychologically, men and women see threesomes as validating their sexual status, or level of attraction. The idea that someone or a couple would consider the third party worthy enough for a salacious encounter can be an ego boost. Group sex can offer the freedom of being nude in front of a bunch of people who are equally exposed, and allowing different men and women to touch and penetrate your body simultaneously may feel incredibly erotic.
At one time 80% of early human societies were polygamous, but human babies are completely helpless at birth and they need parental care for years and having the same two parents around seems to work best for most of us. There is that old saying, “Women need to feel loved to have sex, but men need to have sex to feel loved.” However, Miley Cyrus identified herself as being sexually fluid, meaning that she is literally open to every single thing that is consenting and that doesn’t involve an animal and where everyone is of age. People still want commitments and they want to get married, but now they have the attitude that they are in this for the long haul, so to keep things fresh, they are going to experiment from time to time. Group sex has ruined many relationships and it may not end up being all that it is cracked up to be.
Written for Linda G. Hill Life in progress One-Liner Wednesday – Not a Fan of Christmas